Re: What would you do? Phoenix5822: I've been in similar situations three times....all with different outcomes..
#1 - Bestfriend, her fiance wasn't cheating on her, but was doing his best to..he was trying to hook up with me. Told her, she didn't believe me. We actually ended up on a three way call and she heard him tell me XYZ and promise the moon...she still was in such denial that she let him weasel his way out of it. She was actually pissed at me for telling her ::)
#2 - Sister, told her that it was common knowledge her husband was cheating. She didn't want to believe it so ignored it and wanted "proof". She finally got it when her best friend was caught doing him.
#3 - Aquaintance. When my stbxh left, I found out that his bestfriend was doing the same thing to his wife. I knew her well, we used to be really good friends and we just grew apart. I told her and she believed me. I felt bad, I didn't want her to hurt like I was, but at the same time I hated that he was making her look like a d@mned fool. They are split and now he too is living with OW. She also had phone bills, late hours, etc that she was already questioning.
I chose to tell even after scenario #1 for two reasons....#1 Safety. If you are in a marriage & sterile, then you generally think you are monogomous. Married & sterile people generally do not use protection. If they disrespect you enough to cheat, who says they were considerate enough to use protection on their tryst? #2 I would want someone to tell me. I don't ever want to look like a fool and know that everyone else knew what was going on and I was blind.
Re: What would you do? pluscachange: [quote author=Spike link=topic=39517.msg437005#msg437005 date=1168386367">
I'd beat the shit out of him for putting me in this position.
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That pretty much sums it up, right there.
