Oh Gosh Darn It!! mariher: I'm seriously liking him more and more everyday and I'm gonna fall head over heels in love with this damn guy. :(
I feel like heading for the hills...But why???!!!!!!! ???
Re: Oh Gosh Darn It!! chaotic: If you are going to fall head over heals....Wear a helmet.
Re: Oh Gosh Darn It!! flipflopnomore: I feel the same way. I am petrified to care about someone again. Told myself I was going to go turtle slow. We are, but I find myself thinking about him more and more throughout the day. Soooo scary. Good thing we both have our kids this week and probably wont see him too much till next week. I need to keep things in perspective.
Why do you want to run???? We should be happy that we are able to move on. But who wants to go thru what we did all over again.
Re: Oh Gosh Darn It!! mariher: I've wrote in a previous post a long while back that I'm always open to new love.
But it seems as though now as it stares me in the face I'm petrified. I don't want heartache anymore. I've already loved and lost, I just don't know how to turn those wheels again.
Another thing that is on my mind is the fact that he doesn't have any children and I have a little girl who will be 2 years old in a few months. I don't know what his opinion is as far as dating someone who has a child and I'm afraid to care about him because I don't know if he could deal with it, so my head tells me to run as far away as I can. But my heart tells me I can't run forever and I need to give myself another chance to love.
How do you approach someone your dating with the question of how they feel towards your having a child?
Re: Oh Gosh Darn It!! flipflopnomore: How long have you been dating?
I would probably just come out and ask. It would seem that any guy that is decently mature wouldn't have a problem dating a woman with children. Sigh, at my age I don't know of any guys who don't have kids. But I definately would ask how he feels about it. He obviously knows already that you have a child and he is still around right? That is a good sign. :)
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