a great way to rid yourself of some emotional pain... JadedButtafly: I was in the Good Will store today, looking at Cd's and I came across one that someone made with their names on it (a couples names) and the year, and it said "Their favorites" I thougth at first w0w what a great way to do something. First I thought awwwwwww, then I thought Oh no they got rid of it... wait a mintue I have an idea ;) Believe it or not those aren't rare for me lol But I thought I'd share.... try burning some songs to a cd that remind you of your stbx or x.... you can either A) smash the CD for angry theraphy, or B) give it away... say to the Good Will or something... like giving away your pain, or rather a symbol of them, this way when you here these songs you know that mean past memories but you are more likely to remember smiling rather than to remember crying. If you smach the CD, great for you, if you give the CD away great too! I'm seeing it like this give the CD away and someone who needs it will come across it and perhaps feel the way I felt when I picked it up. Yes I bought it, yes i"ve listened to it, but it reminds me that there is a new hope along with this new year. I may very well burn a cd with songs on it that remind me of the stbx. We should do some kind of "CD exchange" around here.... getting rid of the bad and letting in the new? any thoughts or other ideas on this one?