Re: I will be OK elf624: I think that's why I realized I'll be ok. I finally figured out he is a loser and really always has been. I want someone who will take care of me as much as I take care of them. My stbxh's problem is he wants to spend all his money on alcohol. I'm still paying his bills for him. Once he's on his own, he'll realize it's not all fun and games. I just wish I would have figured all this out years ago. I wouldn't have wasted so much time. He's always been like this. Never willing to help with anything.
