Re: When will I come out of this hell??????? lisaj: I have been split for 7 months and was the same as u, just b4 xmas I have met the most wonderful caring kind man, he has brought the spark back and u 2 will soon when u least expect it.
Hope it all works out for u, and if u ever come to the uk look me up
Lisa
Re: When will I come out of this hell??????? superwife: Sassy, listen to these wise girls :D. I know I am repeating their words, but it does take time, and the time is different for everyone. Look back at some our our old posts. You will see thet we were all there in the beginning. I swear, it does get better. You will find someone who treats you the way you seserve to be treated. In the meantime, take this time to find yourself. Focus on building relationships with friends, male or female. Platonic make friends are very imprtant, to make you realize that not all guys are like your ex. Build friendships here, with people who can relate to you and understand what you are going through. Focus on building a new life with your son, and showing him that life goes on. Focus on doing things you never though you'd do. If it weren't for my separation, I would have never met all of you guys, and I never would have spent a weekend in Vermont with a bunch of drunken divorcees :D :D :D. In the past 21 months, I have learned so much about myself and grown so much, and met some really cool people along the way (here and IRL).
Do you work? If not, you seriously may want to consider building a career. I know money is tight, but you can get a loan and go back to school. Suck it up financially if you have to. It'll be worth it in the end. Focus on you and your son, and making your lives better, and don't wait for someone to depend on. This is very important as a young single mom. You can do it. At times it is not easy for me (money is still tight, but it's all mine!!), but it's better than it was a year ago.
Hang in ther girl!!! ;)
Re: When will I come out of this hell??????? atlgirl777: Alright K!!!! Listen up! You are beautiful outside and in! You are one of my best friends and have been there for me through this whole ordeal! You are coming over tonight. No more feeling sorry for yourself missy!
What have I been telling you? STOP LETTING HIM CONTROL YOU!!!!!!! He does not have that right anymore! THANK GOD he is someone else's problem (God help her). If anything feel sorry for S. she has a life of misery ahead of her. Honey I love you and it's time to let him go..........forever. I want my perky friend back! I am so tired of hearing you talk down about yourself. You have sooooo much to give and are one of the most generous people I know! You know I am here for you and we are gonna get you out of this funk! I love ya babe and will see you tonight!!! Maybe we can get my computer fixed!!! lol ;) :P
