Why are you contacting me? flipflopnomore: J
Why are you still contacting me? You know I have finally come to a place where I know in my heart we are done. Our marriage is over. I accept it. You left over 6 months ago now and have just come back for booty calls here and there and thats it. I went along with it trying to save my marriage. You used me and treated me like crap. You only called when you were horny and I always was around.
When I heard about you and your "friend" a few months ago it was devastating. I believed you that you were confused and needed space. I gave you space. You are one messed up mess. You have a drug addiction and I was willing to look the other way as your wife. You blamed the failure of our marriage on me. You have the issues. You ran. Not me.
Now you hear that I am no longer waiting for you and have moved on finally. I did meet a great guy who treats me wonderfully. He is sweet, nice, opens my door and doesn't make me pay for everything. He calls me to see how I am and how my day is going. He doesn't sleep for 48 hours at a time. He knows I am scared and is willing to wait for me. He doesn't tear me down like you did.
So, now that it has gotten around to you that I am no longer sitting here, why are you calling and texting me? Why are you telling me you miss and love me all of a sudden? What happened to your "friend"? Strange timing isnt it? I am no longer willing to be your Plan B.
You text messaged me at 12:30 a.m. last weekend. Why? Were you lonely? Were you worried I was with D? Well, I was. We were sleeping and my phone went off. He told me he isn't interested in getting involved with me if you were still coming around. I think you know that and that is precisely why you sent me the text. No, J. I am not letting you screw this up for me. I don't want you back. A few months ago I would have, but not now. I realized what an a** you were and how bad you treated me.
You said you missed and loved your wife. Bull sh**. You don't miss me. Your scared that I have moved on. The second I break it off with D, you would be gone too. I sent you that email sunday telling you nicely not to contact me unless its about a divorce matter. No more texts asking how me and my kids are. I am not your buddy. I was your wife that you walked out on. You lost that priviledge to know how I was the day you left and the day you filed for divorce. Don't pretend that you care.
So, after getting my email the other day why did you just send me an email forward tonight? Yeah, it was one of those "...it takes a lifetime to forget someone...." emails. Was there a purpose for that? Once again J, you should have thought of that before you walked out on me.
Please, stop playing games and trying to mess with my head. You are no longer calling the shots in my life. I am sorry life isn't turning out for you like you thought. But its not my problem anymore.
Have a nice life.
Re: Why are you contacting me? superwife: [quote author=flipflopnomore link=topic=39554.msg432908#msg432908 date=1167885105">
Now you hear that I am no longer waiting for you and have moved on finally. I did meet a great guy who treats me wonderfully.
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There you go.
Very nicely written!!
Re: Why are you contacting me? flipflopnomore: Thank you. Its amazing how a great person can make you realize how dysfunctional a previous relationship was?
SC, I am still scared to death of this guy. He's too nice, must be something wrong....LOL. But there is no way in hell I am going to let the ex ruin it for me. I will do that all on my own.......Hopefully not.
Re: Why are you contacting me? superwife: [quote author=flipflopnomore link=topic=39554.msg432910#msg432910 date=1167885806">
SC, I am still scared to death of this guy. He's too nice, must be something wrong....LOL. But there is no way in hell I am going to let the ex ruin it for me. I will do that all on my own.......Hopefully not.
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That's right. You will not ruin, and most certainly, your ex will not. He will try, but you will not let him win!!!
Re: Why are you contacting me? PennyLane: You're a smart smart woman Flip. If you EVER start to doubt your feelings, come back here and reread what you wrote in this post.
Well stated gal, well stated.
Is there a way you can block his emails? Don't let his constant contacting you ruin this new relationship.
Best of luck
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