Is He Into You? mariher: Good morning guys,
You all know about this new guy I've been dating for a few weeks now. I have a question and I need some input or just opinions: Me and this guy talk everyday on the phone, and we text each other everyday and send pics of each other everyday. I'm wondering, is he liking me as much as I'm liking him? I feel like a damn 13 year old asking this question but I'm curious as to how can you tell if the guy your dating is really "feeling" you?
When we went out on our third date he had told me "normally if I go out on a date with someone, I'll see them like once every two weeks, I've seen you already 3 times in 4 days".
So that has to count for something, right?
Re: Is He Into You? superwife: ***hits Mariher over the head***
DUH!!!!! Yeah, he likes you.
This is key though. Do you make the initial contact every day, or does he? I know that is a dumb, game-playing question, but make sure it is going both ways.
We have had many discussions here about the etiquette of when to follow up, how often to call, who should make the contact, etc. Generally speaking, I think you gotta be careful with too much interaction in the beginning. But if the feeling is mutual, then hell, there's something going on here, and you gotta throw the rules out the window.
After my bf and I had our first meeting, I went to work the next day, came home and found a message on my IM when I got home. He said he really enjoyed our date. I was very surprised and very happy at the same time. I was hoping for it, but didn't want to get so anxious. He tells me now he wanted to see me the very next day.
Re: Is He Into You? vdc_1975: My personal advice is dont worry about how into you he is.
If you guys are having fun together, just enjoy the time, and dont worry about anything else. If things are meant to progress, you will know when he is "into" you, and how into you he is.
GL with your new relationship. :)
Re: Is He Into You? Temporary: It sounds like things are on the right track; so don't put unnecessary pressure on it. If he's in contact every day and you see each other often, there's really no guessing - the dude is into you. A few weeks is a bit early for relationship-y discussion, though. Enjoy yourself and wallow in your still-singleness because it sounds like you won't be that way for much longer.
Re: Is He Into You? mariher: I think that 8 times out of 10 he will contact me first throughout the day.
I'm an attention whore, so I guess it's something that I really enjoy about him.
But your right, I shouldn't worry too much about how into me he is and just enjoy myself for now.
I really can't say if things are moving too fast too soon because when we hang out or when we talk on the phone, it's like i've known him forever because we crack so many jokes and we talk about so many things and we can even barely say anything and still be comfortable with that. It's like we're too much in tune with each other and it's freaking me out because he's most likely the coolest and funniest guy I've ever met.
**sigh** I know, I know....
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