Re: If a man wants you... clambakesX: [quote author=vdc_1975 link=topic=39561.msg433048#msg433048 date=1167926835">
As a man, I pretty much agree with all of them save the 2 above. I feel that complete and open honesty are 2 very important parts to have a truly healthy loving relationship.
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I don't think anyone's advising dishonesty ... it's like the "Make him miss you sometimes..." doesn't mean to play hard to get or be unavailable. Many women don't "get" appropriate space, don't even grant themselves enough space in the relationship. And believe me, the "don't tell him everything" isn't a recommendation to hide something YOU would find relevant. It's more of a "don't bog him down with all kinds of crap that you should work out on your own."
Re: If a man wants you... Batman: That list is gender biased. It can apply to women, too.
I hate it that the world puts men in the category of "villain" more often than not.
Sure, there are bad men out there.
However, some of us are heroes, and we don't deserve this type of cynicism.
Change every reference to "men" to "significant other" and every reference to "him" to "him/her" and I'm fine with it.
Re: If a man wants you... Freckles: I want a Woman who wants to go to Church with me.
Church Women are nice
:)
Re: If a man wants you... superwife: Good food for thought.
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Never let a man know everything... He will use it against you later...
You cannot change a man's behavior... Change comes from within...
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Lessons learned by marriage...
Re: If a man wants you... BobFromAcctg: [quote author=Freckles link=topic=39561.msg435212#msg435212 date=1168186482">
Church Women are nice
:)
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Thats not a guarantee there Freck. There are plenty of losers in the Church as well.
My stbxw was not a loser (I do want to clarify that since this isn't premium) but she definitely came with issues and she was very much a Church woman.
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