Re: Rate How Important These Qualites are flipflopnomore: No financial status and how much someone makes isn't super important but if they have a job and not sitting around leeching off of people is important to me.
I think the chemistry one is perfect. The guy I am seeing now isn't what I would call drop dead hot, but as time goes on I find myself more and more attracted to him. My ex was very good looking, but that was about it. Had none of the other qualities mentioned.
Re: Rate How Important These Qualites are katbuttkid: This is off the chart.... here's where my head's been at. Huge for me the last 6 months are
1. Supportive and understanding
2. Kindess
3. Leadership abilities (but not controlling)
4. honesty
5. could drive a nice car but doesn't
6. maturity (intelligent conversations, manners)
7. Needs a Tree in his life (chemistry is part of this!)
8. Has kids/kid, handles relationship with XW with dignity
9. sense of humor, sense of adventure, sense of style/aesthetics
10. outdoor recreation component
11. not too sensitive, but remember #2 above
12. over 40 but can keep up wiht me
Re: Rate How Important These Qualites are PennyLane: I agree with Spike. Alot of these qualities change as the relationship grows.
I look for
1) must have a great personality and funny sence of humor. I have to be able to laugh with this person and vise versa
2) respect both for self and me
3) stability. Has own place, vehicle job. (i don't care about how much a
person makes as long as they are responsible with their finances.
4) honesty
5) if they have kids, i'd look at the relationship they have with their kids and family.
6) chemistry. both physicall and mentally.
Re: Rate How Important These Qualites are pluscachange: All that said, I would make a list that looked like:
1. Funny
2. Pretty bordering on gaa gaa gorgeous
3. Highly sexual
4. highly intelligent
5. free spirited
6. highly sexual (did I mention that already)
7. not boring (in a fun way, not in a Chinese proverb way)
8. less rules bound in preference to more rules bound
9. enjoys discussing complex issues at a deep level
10. Sexual - highly
Re: Rate How Important These Qualites are whythisnow: Honesty
Integrity
humor
humilty
Intelligence
Beauty
Passion
Sexual compatibility
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