Re: Rate How Important These Qualites are CDNgurl: For me number 1 is chemistry... not looks per say, but attraction. Everything else you can find in a good friend.
so...
1. Attraction
2. Mutual respect/admiration
3. Honesty (being open and communicative)
4. Romantic
5. Kindness
Finances can come and go, so that's not important to me.
Re: Rate How Important These Qualites are vdc_1975: [quote author=CDNgurl link=topic=39562.msg433083#msg433083 date=1167928567">
For me number 1 is chemistry... not looks per say, but attraction. Everything else you can find in a good friend.
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I agree completely. I felt like something was missing from the list.
Re: Rate How Important These Qualites are Alphabet Girl: These are hard to rank...For example, when you put so many of the good character qualities first, then job ranks pretty low. Well, how much you make isn't that important, but it is kind of hard to say, 'well he's a nice guy and I am really attracted to him, but he keeps getting fired from his job every two weeks!'... LOL
Re: Rate How Important These Qualites are Spike: These qualities are going to change ratings as the relationship changes.
Lets see, first time meeting. Looks, you aren't going to approach someone you are not attracted too. Then after the second date first changes to honesty, because now you are learning about one another by asking questions. Then further in may be outgoing, because now you are dating steady and you want to have fun with that. etc.
Re: Rate How Important These Qualites are pluscachange: I tend not to put much stock in rating via list for matters concerning love and passion.
How many people have you heard in your life that say "you know, normally he/she is not my type, but gosh, it just felt so right!" or whatever.
I think there's what we say we want, what we hope we'll not be forced to settle for, and what we actually respond to, and I think that rarely do these things actually match up.
Just my opinion.
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