Forgiveness gdgross: Okay, kind of a general topic/question here, but something that I'm going through a bit, or will be in the near future at least.
For those of you that feel your divorce was not your fault, and for those that know my story, I definitely include myself in this category, what did it take for you to get to the point where you were able to forgive your ex?
I don't want to be the dude that holds a grudge forever, but on the other hand, I do feel very cheated.
How dod you come to the point where you forgave your ex? Just interested in hearing your experiences.
Re: Forgiveness ebl: I wish I was there, because I am still very upset with my soon to be ex husband. >:(
Re: Forgiveness CDNgurl: I haven't forgiven mine for the way things were handled - cruelty and disrespect. Having a child together, I can't forgive that cowardice. I have forgiven the other issues though, simply because time and other circumstances have made it such that I don't care anymore.
It's a great question. I wonder how many actually forgive, vs. become indifferent?
Re: Forgiveness Feel: I really don't think I can be even physically ready yet to forgive.... I am just a mess about it all even tho I have tried to move ona nd am doing a good job, he just reminds me that i don't want him anymore and by him doing that it keeps me upset and wanting him to understand... I know long shot... but I guess it will be long time before I feel any peace!
Good luck to you! :)
Re: Forgiveness chaotic: Forgive your enemies.....
Once you transcend the pain they cause, nothing pisses them off more than knowing that they can no longer hurt you.
