I feel soooooo played galil: Well I have no idea how to explain this. But I will try ok.
This woman I was with looking at her from the outside you would have thought she was perfect. After we seperate I do a little research and talk with friends of hers from a long time ago and find out some scary crap.
She is 27 and had been married once and engaged about seven times. I find out that she cheated on several boyfriends and was passing stds around like candy.
all her stories that she told me about herself and her past were far from correct. She lied about her daughter. Said her daughters real daddy wanted nothing to do with her and said he was not the father.
Well I come to find out none of that was true. He was told by her that he was NOT the daddy and he was to stay away from her and that baby. All this time she had been lying to eveyone and telling everyone this guy was a scum bucket. she also said this guy cheated on her with her best friend and left her for this best friend.
I come to find out that was all a lie and in fact it appears that she was cheating on this guy.
I have also heard she used to strip while she was in school for nursing. And had been with a slew of different men.
I feel completeley duped and shocked that this woman could play herself off so well as to have myself and my family believing all her BS.
she now has another child on the way with another man ad has this guy already moved in with her and my son has to be around him.
I mentioned before this was a one night stand and the guy never called her back after the fact. So no telling how well this will work out. It has all the signs of the perfect romance novel.
guy meets girl, guy goes out one time with girl, said girl is a slut and opens her legs for any man on the first date, guy gets lucky, guy never calls her back!!!! Weeks pass and still no word from her romantic man, girl finds out she is pregnant, girl wants to have the baby, girl calls the poor victim and lets him know that she has him trapped. So being the romantic guy he is they start to date and basicly move in together.
Has all the signs of working out for the long haul I guess. after all I am sure that is every gilrs fantasy bang a guy on first date get knocked up and never hear from him again the have his baby and make him date you.
I bet they grow old together ;D
Re: I feel soooooo played snkpack: You know my sister? Small world.
Re: I feel soooooo played Feel: Do you realize that she may take your child away from you... is she a good mother at least and do you ahve any rights to your son, being that you aren't married she can get sole custody and you could loose him...
Have you done any research about that, don't worry to much about who she banged and the question is, have you ever got anything... I just find the stories that you have wrote about her could very well be half truths stretched along the way...
Does she have any family adn why hadden't any of them confirmed this to you?? or have they?
Re: I feel soooooo played galil: Yes I have in fact doen the research.
I am trying to build a case against her in court and have built a list of people that would testify on her bahavior and her past behavior.
I have a few friends where she works and they have all confirmed this information. As far as her family, well I do not talk with them and quite frankly they are sadly to say maybe even more off the deep end than her.
I wish like hell all this information was dreadfuly inaccurate as I know she is ruining her life and smiling the whole time. this is most assuardly going to destroy her kids, my son included.
trust me you have no idea how much I wish this all were a nightmare and I would wake up and say hah jokes on me.
I talked with her best friend from school and she has confirmed that my ex used to be on medication and needed it in the worst way. Well I know my ex was not on any meds when we were together so there may be part of the problem as well.
Sadly all the information I am getting is from reliable sources and from differet people that dont even know each other. yet they all have the same stories about her.
This woman is a nurse at a hopsital and I am just now finding out that the person I was with is in fact one of the biggest walking jokes at the hospital. I was told everyone knows who she is and they all pretty much think she is absolutly nuts and this new behavior has shocked no one at all. they all just say well did you expect anything less from her.
I am trying the best I can to deal with this and protect my son. At this time it will be an up hill battle and one I am not sure I will win.
But I promiss you I wish I was telling half truths and stretching this way along the way but I cant :-\
Re: I feel soooooo played Cheri123: Whoa...there is really nothing I can say to this accept I'll keep you in my prayers. I do believe that nothing ever happens for nothing...and maybe some good will come out of this and you just can't see it right now. Maybe you may be the only one in this woman's life who can help her.
Many times people with mental issues and a past like hers, have suffered from extreme abuse and they need a strong person to help them get the help that they need in order to get proper treatment. If she is a nurse..she obviously has some get up and go about herself to make her want to push her way through school, graduate and get a job as a nurse. Remember there is always two sides to every story.
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