YES she is wonderful!! Stop telling me!! bluskygrl: It seems every single guy I am interested in and often think they are interested in me is also very interested in my good friend!!!!
She is truly a wonderful person and very beautiful but why am I am attracted to the men that end up attracted to her - can I have just one to myself??
We run in the same social circle, but this is getting annoying!!! Hell maybe every man is just attracted to her!!
Do men tell you they think you friend is great even if they are attracted to
you??
I am trying to be positive and read signs of interest well, but this is getting depressing!
Re: YES she is wonderful!! Stop telling me!! sheeps: [quote author=Orange & Blu-sky-grl link=topic=39594.msg433787#msg433787 date=1167963442">
Do men tell you they think you friend is great even if they are attracted to
you??
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I'm sorry Dear, but, no; they tell you in hopes you'll mention their interest to HER. ???
Re: YES she is wonderful!! Stop telling me!! lghawaiian: Haha, that reminds me of something that happened a loooong time ago...
I was with my very good friend Chad at the mall, and these girls started following us around. (Yeah, this is like 8th grade...) Chad was convinced they were following me. So, we sit down in the food court, and they sit in the next table. Chad walks away to give me the chance to talk to them, and before I can utter a word, one of them chimes in with: "Hey, what's your friend's name?" Mrrgh.
Yeah... I get the feeling. Just be patient. The guys that are so enraptured by your friend are clearly missing out. Their loss, right? Just wait, one day there will be someone who doesn't even see your friend. :)
Re: YES she is wonderful!! Stop telling me!! YellowJacket: Sorry, O&B, I bet that sure gets old after a while. Sheeps is dead right. I'd venture to guess that some guys might even attempt to befriend you in an effort to get closer to her if they don't feel confident in approaching.
Re: YES she is wonderful!! Stop telling me!! Cheri123: Okay...it is true...maybe your friend might be very wonderful...but the words that jump out at me are "very beautiful". Guys most likely are not attracted to your friend because she is soooo wonderful, but most likely because of her looks. Those aren't the type of guys you want... many times they are shallow. But the guy who truly is interested in you for the "real true" inner beauty is the one you're seeking to find.
Trust me...on this one. I married a guy who I think only appreciated me for the image "the looks" but when it came down to loving the inner me...he had no clue.
