will this help? JadedButtafly:
If I remember all of the horriblely painful things he's putt me and the kids through this past year, will this be easier for me to walk away? its 2 am and I woke up for a nightmare, about him, about us. This just sucks........ :'(
Re: will this help? Cherry: Nothing will ever make it simple. But yes, keep in mind the bad because that will fuel you thru the weak spots. When you are on your feet and on the other side, you will look back and pity/feel sorry for them and you will realize.
My ex is just as miserable of a person now as he was 4 years ago. Ive moved on, new state, great job, new bf and he lived with his g-ma till she died of cancer and then moved in with his parents.............ain't life grand. ::)
