Re: Can someone teach me how to be single? Cheri123: [quote author=flipflopnomore link=topic=39603.msg434222#msg434222 date=1168012589">
Well, by being descreet do you mean you never go out in public? Are you sort of a secret? Is the time you spend together purely sexual?
To me, if you are doing only the above then maybe he is using you. It would be very touchy with the boss situation but do you really want to be someone's dirty little secret?
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Actually we do go out in public to restaurants and movies. We spend time talking yes, but I think it is mostly a sexual relationship.
Re: Can someone teach me how to be single? Cheri123: [quote author=PennyLane link=topic=39603.msg434910#msg434910 date=1168054495">
re read what you just posted Cher......you already answered your own concerns.
He hasnt brought you around any of his family in one yr of your dating. FLAG. RED ONE
RED FLAG number two. You want to break it off with him. You don't trust him.
I'm getting from your post that you are not that "into" him. Break it off now.
My thoughts have always been to never date a coworker........especially a boss.
Best of luck
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Thank you. I think you are absolutely correct. I'm trying to do that. I'm finding it more difficult than I thought.
Re: Can someone teach me how to be single? Cheri123: [quote author=Crush(ed) link=topic=39603.msg434829#msg434829 date=1168046956">
This doesn't sound good. You don't trust him, you haven't met his family, you are a secret? :P
It is easier missing them than being with them and being miserable. Focus on you, become comfortable alone and when you're ready, it will happen. Not a good idea to go from one person to the other. I know you think you're ready for a relationship, but you're not if you're not comfortable alone.
When you're single, confident and independent you attract 'em more than if you're semi-involved with someone and wondering if you'll ever meet someone.
Take care...
Crush :D
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Okay...so the question now becomes, how do I become confident and single
Re: Can someone teach me how to be single? lghawaiian: [quote author=Cheri123 link=topic=39603.msg435239#msg435239 date=1168188778">
Okay...so the question now becomes, how do I become confident and single
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Time, good friends, positive reinforcement, and loving yourself. Don't date for a while, but observe the attention you get from other guys. Let it fluff you ego a bit. Fill your life with something other than dating or a man, like taking up a regular class (yoga, martial arts, etc.). Not only will you enrich your life, but you will become comfortable being on your own, and therefore confident.
Re: Can someone teach me how to be single? Cherry: C, will you be my life coach? ;)
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