Re: I was NOT paranoid or crazy!! flyaway: I know exactly what you mean, Tn2. EXACTLY. For years, I suspected. But when I would ask, the stbx would deny. ::)
When I got proof, he would admit to each new piece of the puzzle as I uncovered it, but would deny that anything else happened, until I could prove it, that is. ::) What a moron.
I DO think we need to cultivate that "gut feeling" unique to us. We've got it for a reason, ladies.
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Re: I was NOT paranoid or crazy!! Cherry: True but dont ignore the intuition either and actually look for the truth. :D
Re: I was NOT paranoid or crazy!! alonewith2: I remember my stbxh making me feel paranoid and guilty of looking for the proof I needed. Not much he could say after I found it.
Intuition is fine, but I still like to have some facts to go on, too. I don't want to be left thinking "what if my intuition was wrong and I just screwed up everything on a gut feeling?!!!"
I was NOT paranoid or crazy!! kimberly: It just occurred to me that I actually felt relief, yes relief when I finally found enough substancial evidence to convict my husband of cheating. Don't get me wrong his betrayal crushed me and I still have major trust issues but now I know my intuition is still 100% accurate.
He used to make me feel paranoid, insecure and weak, he would tell me to chill out and not be such a jealous freak and I would feel terrible for even thinking he would do that to me. This nagging little voice would set little alarm bells off in my head that I would continously ignore. I was a nervous wreck at the end and I let it consume me until the day I discovered the truth. I'm NOT crazy! I AM normal, he's the one with deep seeded insecurities..............I was hurt but at least I'm not going through that hell anymore. Anyone know what i mean?
Re: I was NOT paranoid or crazy!! Cherry: Boy do I feel ya girl. Some of my most painful moments have come from ignoring that intuitions I have. But looking back, you are right. Iknow now to listen.
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