Re: is she/he easy? Temporary: After my first marriage, I was one of those that fell into bed very quickly. And it had everything in the world to do with my lack of self-respect and my need for any sort of comfort. People I've known who were on-the-first-date kind of people had the same issues. Therefore, I believe there is a direct connection between having respect for oneself and sleeping around.
Now that I'm on the other end of that, I've been called a prude, frigid, you name it. Even the truly good guys will still push it after a few drinks. It sucks to be a woman right now, if you ask me. We're damned if we do and damned if we don't.
Re: is she/he easy? flyaway: [quote author=Stinkybutt link=topic=40013.msg440584#msg440584 date=1168870924">
It sucks to be a woman right now, if you ask me. We're damned if we do and damned if we don't.
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no truer words, sb. I've experienced both sides of this. They start looking at you like a booty call if you do, and then they push and push if you don't.
What the hell?? >:(
Re: is she/he easy? td7629: [quote author=flyaway link=topic=40013.msg440591#msg440591 date=1168872644">
[quote author=Stinkybutt link=topic=40013.msg440584#msg440584 date=1168870924">
It sucks to be a woman right now, if you ask me. We're damned if we do and damned if we don't.
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no truer words, sb. I've experienced both sides of this. They start looking at you like a booty call if you do, and then they push and push if you don't.
What the hell?? >:(
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I can't agree more with the two of you.. Just another question.. How come guys aren't labeled easy for trying to get some on the first date?? :-\
Re: is she/he easy? jojo: hiya everyone,.
personally I have never slept with a bloke before three weeks and that would include at least 10 to 20 dates. How do you know who the other person is after seeing them for 1 night. I wouldnt sleep with someone i didnt know so why would i after chatting to someone for 3 maybe 4 hrs. The best piece of advice my mother gave me was dont just give it away to anyone respect yourself, and that is exactly what I have done. I have slept with 5 guys and that was in 5 relationships including my husband and my partner now I'm not a prude and I love sex but I like it with someone I know. I dont look down on woman who do sleep with alot of guys or with guys on the first night I just don't really understand them I think it looks abit needy. Mind you i did have a chat with a girl once who sleep with two guys on the same night and they were brothers she thought she was really clever and was in control, the brothers on the other hand thought she was the biggest tramp going and it certainly went round that if any bloke wanted it she would deliver. I do agree with the damed bit though but I'll defo be giving my daughter and step daughters to be the same advice I was given.
Hiya goosy hows the dog?
jojo
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a question just popped in my haed though would a girl be pissed off if the guy didnt try anything maybe they are damned too!!
Re: is she/he easy? Temporary: What I'm noticing in this thread is that the intelligent, respect-worthy women replying are angry about the possibility of someone being labeled easy (or whatever term you prefer)...but adamantly state that they are NOT one of those women who sleep with someone right away. Point made!
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