Re: is she/he easy? vdc_1975: I agree with the comments of a woman is damned if you do, damned if you dont these days.
I dont necessarily agree with the theory that all women who put out on the first date are easy/sluts. However some woman who DO put out on the first date will fall into that category. I really agree with Tree's viewpoint on this.
Also in regards to the idea of being with 4 people vs 40 making someone easy I disagree with as well. As long as someone is safe in the past, and is clean and disease free now, who cares how many different partners they had in the past, I know I dont. But making sure they are "clean" after all that "experience is the tricky part....
Re: is she/he easy? Temporary: I don't think someone who drops them on the first date is necessarily a slut...I do, however, believe that there's a lack of self-respect that plays a big part in it.
Re: is she/he easy? Mr. Incognito: I think the difficult part would be this...How in the world does someone approch the subject of how many partners someone has had without trudging on something that is not their buissness. I mean if you ask that question you have to deal with two things. (At least from my perspective)
1.) By asking you can be seen as presuming that you will be one of the people who "make the grade" and will be invited into their bed.
2.) You get the added bonus of wondering how you "measure" up to their former partners.
Re: is she/he easy? vdc_1975: [quote author=Mr. Incognito link=topic=40013.msg440649#msg440649 date=1168877242">
I think the difficult part would be this...How in the world does someone approch the subject of how many partners someone has had without trudging on something that is not their buissness. I mean if you ask that question you have to deal with two things. (At least from my perspective)
1.) By asking you can be seen as presuming that you will be one of the people who "make the grade" and will be invited into their bed.
2.) You get the added bonus of wondering how you "measure" up to their former partners.
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Easy, just ask. I asked and got honest straight answers. I was prepared for answers, good or bad, and it all worked out fine. I guess though it depends on the person, honesty and full-disclosure were very big between us so we talked about her past experiences.
Re: is she/he easy? mhiba: I have done it too many times, one night stands. Before the ex, it seemed great, no worries. But now that I have felt what real intimacy is, a one night stand for me seems as it only will bring guilt and worry. So id rather wait for someone I want to see in the morning.
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