Re: is she/he easy? tripny2k6: I dont even try to make serious moves until about the fourth or fifth date. Im usually not looking for a hookup. If that were the case I could save a whole lot of money and just go to a bar. Unfortunately I respect women, and I like it when women respect themselves.
Re: is she/he easy? smokin: thats basically what i think.
i think a woman should respect herself enough to do NOTHING at all, till you get to know the person through dates, and talking, etc.
if they put out that easy, whats to say they dont for everyone? and yes, ladies, you DO HAVE the power over men. we are like little puppets. haha.....
Re: is she/he easy? tripny2k6: Thats the thing though, now a days a guy can go out almost any night of the week and hook-up. I dont want that. Been there done that.
Re: is she/he easy? YellowJacket: Most of the women that I've been with I've been good friends with well before we started dating. So it was more a matter of how much time we'd known each other. I haven't ever really thought in terms of "easy" though. Some women require a deep connection and some don't. Then again, I also don't think of women that have slept with a lot of guys as sluts either. I think all of that presumes something immoral about sex.
Re: is she/he easy? katbuttkid: I dunno. There comes a time in a woman's life where she's avialable more readily than at other times. If I don't like a guy, it doesn't matter how many dates we go on. I'm not going to sleep wiht him. Period.
If I super do like a guy, then I don't see the point in playing the dating game. I never do it on the first date, often not for a while, until I'm sure. It usually takes me while tio be sure I like someone. But often that isn't discovered while dating. If we do go on a formal date, I don't usually put out because I know men are like this and will start to think the wrong thing about me not respecting myself.
I wonder why it always seems to come down to respect and not down to something else.
Anyuway, there are so many variables in there too, like how long we've known each other, how long it's been since a man's touched me, how flirty we've been together, and if I'm in the head-space where I feel ready.
Sorry, I know this probably doesn't help much! ?
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