Re: For the newbies: Feel: kim, you are right...
The new ones at Ojar need to know, no matter what things do turn out ok...
The usual will always be there, as you said the bills, appointments, etc...
it does get easier, you don't forget ever, but you learn to deal with it and get by!
There will always be bad days, mopy days and then you will have good ones as well... you may not think so now but you will!
Re: For the newbies: Balist: Fantastic post. I've been posting since this summer and then I kind of disappeared. OJAR was there for me during my tough time and now I want to come back and help those who need it.
For the newbies, there is a great group of people here on OJAR who can help you out. Just post your thoughts and together we can help each other.
I've come a long way, thanks to OJAR.
The important thing to know is that you are not alone and that there are people here who have gone through exactly what you have gone through and can help you.
Re: For the newbies: Phoenix5822: Thanks for the encouragement. As you know, it is hard to believe that there is a light at the end of the tunnel...it's good to know that there is hope!