Re: Guilt Complex chaotic: I have been on both sides of this. Dates that I felt more than they and vice versa.
At first it hurt when I felt more than they did and we stopped seeing eachother. But after a bit, I realized that I had ended my share of "relationships" after a couple dates for the same reason. I came to grips that just because I feel an attraction for someone, does not mean they will feel the same. Its not a reflection of me if they dont and thier loss will be someone else's gain.
So, if I dont feel the attraction to someone, they should not take it as a reflection of them. If they do, I am sorry, but I can not be held responsible for thier feelings if we have only been out a couple times and it was casual.
I will however not lead anyone on anymore. Did that, had it done to me, and wont do it anymore.
