Re: I dont understand, Men that dont want to have sex C-Note: [quote author=Mugged By Fluffy link=topic=40087.msg441531#msg441531 date=1168969391">
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Remember two things:
1) Beauty outside does not always equal beauty inside.
2) The way a person makes you feel(emotionally) will always/eventually take precedence over the way he or she looks.
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I'm torn. Out side beauty and the way they make you feel physically takes precedence in some people. I know it doesn't make since, but I liken it to drug abusers. They got bad habits that are hard to break.
I'd like to note that sometimes I hit a period of zero interest in the feminine physically. It's not due to sickness or sports. I think it could be stress related. When I have times when there's a lot on my plate and the he pressure is on I'm pretty much focussed on work and getting things on that front done.
Re: I dont understand, Men that dont want to have sex chaotic: Medical conditions such as diabetes, high blood pressure, weight problems, etc can effect not only a man's physical performance, but also his libido.
Ever notice that when you are working out, and healthy, your libido goes up?
On the other hand, perhaps in some of the cases you mentioned, the guy was working so hard to keep a high maintenance woman satisfied monetarily, he was just too tired to keep her satisfied sexually.
Re: I dont understand, Men that dont want to have sex vdc_1975: [quote author=chaotic link=topic=40087.msg441578#msg441578 date=1168972208">
Medical conditions such as diabetes, high blood pressure, weight problems, etc can effect not only a man's physical performance, but also his libido.
Ever notice that when you are working out, and healthy, your libido goes up?
On the other hand, perhaps in some of the cases you mentioned, the guy was working so hard to keep a high maintenance woman satisfied monetarily, he was just too tired to keep her satisfied sexually.
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Yeah those medical issues will affect a man's libido.
I have not noticed an increase in my libido directly tied to being healthy and working out, though you might have a point there.
I guess the thing I find MOST baffling about this phenomenon is the fact that these guys all claimed to love these women, and yet these guys would not step up to the plate and do whatever it took to keep their partner happy. Be it it using your hand, mouth, taking prescription pills to help the issue, etc..
Re: I dont understand, Men that dont want to have sex YellowJacket: [quote author=Mugged By Fluffy link=topic=40087.msg441531#msg441531 date=1168969391">
2) The way a person makes you feel(emotionally) will always/eventually take precedence over the way he or she looks.
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I second what MBF said. Early on, X and I had sex all the time. As my respect for her diminished, it went down to about once a week, often every few weeks. I think we went two months once but part of that was also work related. My need didn't go down during those times, I just took care of it myself.
Sex is more than just the physical. It means reaching out to your partner and exposing your emotions. When you're constantly frustrated with your partner you often don't want that emotional connection. You have to respect and think well of someone to want to approach them for that.
I really get why women who have jobs and whose husbands don't help with the kids, don't help with the cleaning, etc. often don't want sex.
Re: I dont understand, Men that dont want to have sex Freckles: Sex Sex Sex
It seems to me that some use Sex to get back at their Spouse because
they are SelfCentered Selfish Me Me Me Me type Person.
They don't have any Love/Careing about the *Other* Person , they are just a Spoilt Brat who wants to withhold Sex. The Glue that holds a Marrage together
They want thier Marrage to Collapse so * No Sex ! *
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