Re: I must be nuts? whythisnow: 4Ls,
I met a great girl and have been together almost 1 yr.
The "perfect" bubble has been popped. Sometimes we put too much into another person and we forget they are humans and have faults.
My advise:
Take a step back and if it is ment to happen it will. He is not perfect, none of us are. Enjoy what it is.... A fling until you both want it to be more.
So, take your time and enjoy it while it lasts. If it last 50 yrs then good for you.
FIDO
Re: I must be nuts? darkrose: Enjoy it.
It may last, it may not..but all that matters is that you enjoy it while it does.
Re: I must be nuts? ionysis: A friend of mine just had a similar experience. Met guy online. Was a penpal for months. Had everything in common, emailed pages every week. Flirted, seemed to be "soulmates" blah, blah. Went to meet him one weekend. BIG mistake. Looked nothing like his picture, totally different in person than he was in writing, had no connection, and because he didn't fancy her he was extremely uncivil to her throughout her visit.
Not the first time I've heard this.
Personally I think it is impossible to tell without meeting someone if there is the potential for more than just being penpals.
Of course when you meet him you might both hit it off famously. However getting all doe-eyed about someone who you've never met sounds like you are asking to hit the ground with a thud.
Re: I must be nuts - Update LiveLaughLoveLearn: All I have to say is Holy Cow. I met my on-line buddy and it was immediate chemistry. It's very strange, it is as though we have known each other all of our lives and it is even more scary that we can complete each other's sentences. I am completely petrified of falling hard for this man, though deep in my heart, I know he is awesome and even my head tells me I have nothing to fear. I think the entire rebound relationship possibility scares me. I've asked him about this and he has assured me that this is not a rebound for him. So, I am trying to figure out why the hell am I so scared. I know this man has his faults, as do I. I was not looking for a relationship, but this just happened. Never in all my life, have I felt so strongly about a person. I am not a needy person, but this man has blown me out of the water. Does every first relationship after a divorce have to be a rebound? My head is spinning and I am trying to work through all of my emotions. When we are together there is absolutely no denying how hooked we are on one another - the chemistry is just there! Should I just get over the entire possibility of this being a rebound or should I keep my guard up? Help!
Re: I must be nuts? *Tricia: JUST LIVE GIRL......LIVE AND LET GO :)
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