Re:Ready to play? amess: The worst thing my stbx ever did was ask me out on a first date.....
Re:Ready to play? Good to be ME: oh my god amess you hit the nail on the head there with that one. I would like to second amess's answer
Can I do that? LOL
Re:Ready to play? Tessa: Good one amess. I agree with you. I wish I hadn't met my x. I would be both financially and emotionally better off.
Hmm something bad my x did. Well here is a small one. He used to throw all of my things out without asking me or anything. What he felt was garbage he threw away. I would find out after the garbage man had come and gone.
Re:Ready to play? recentlydiscarded: I agree with amess..the worst thing was deinitely getting my number when we met.
I would have to say the one that comes to mind though as of recently is after he told me that he no longer loved me and he really didnt even like me anymore. I was silenced and sobbing and while I was already down what did he do? Yep...he gave me another blow by telling me that he couldnt even stand to look at me anymore because he doesnt find me physically attractive anymore. It might sound silly but it really really hurt.
Anyways i could list the mean things he's said to me lately but I think you get the point. He was really out to get me to hate him...and it worked.
Re:Ready to play? cloud: I'm back and ready to play some more.
It's our wedding day and I've busted my butt to memorize our vows. We get up in front of the minister and I say them perfectly. She doesn't. She stutters and messes up.
Later, we're at the reception and it's our dance. We get on the dance floor and I forget the dance steps that we practiced when we took a couple of lessons. She tells me how embarrassed she is in front of everyone. Not the funny, look at us, embarrassment. But the I can't believe it's my wedding day and you forgot the dance steps. This is after she blew the vows but made no mention of it.
I remember that moment because she could have laughed it off and we could have just danced the best we could. But instead it was all about her at that moment and I should have realized that it was always going to be about her--and I was to be in the shadows taking blame when things went wrong and getting no credit for when things went right.
Later, she apologized and said she had forgotten the steps, too.
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