son of a B***h Kinney26: The attractive woman I talked to at work yesterday that I was thinking of asking out has a boyfriend. I must of misunderstood something, she was talking about breaking up with her boyfriend, it must have been an old boyfriend. I came in today and I heard her talking about going out for her birthday with her boyfriend. Well back to square one I guess.
Also lately I have been regressing and wanting my stbx back worse than I have in a long time. I even called her and told her that, This is so hard. It's been 3 1/2 months and I feel like I've gone nowhere. I think it is because I have to see her and talk to her all the time because of our son, so I can't get over her. I wish I could just have time away from everything.
Re:son of a B***h cloud: Kinney,
I know how you feel. I've got my daughter for the Labor Day Weekend and I purposely asked if I could keep her over Monday night and take her to day care--just so I wouldn't have to see my ex.
Not seeing her makes a difference for me. And I, too, go through periods of time where I miss her. And it often comes when I'm just plain down or feel like there isn't anyone else that I'd want to spend time with or if I'm down and think I'll never find someone special that can replace her.
What was her reaction when you called her and told her you still wanted her back? How did you feel afterward?
Re:son of a B***h Kinney26: She didn't really have a reaction. I said what i wanted to say and got of the phone. I guess I wanted what I said to sink in and I didn't want to rush a reaction out of her. I know it won't sink in and she probably won't even bring it up again. I just miss her. I don't want to feel this way anymore, but I gave her my heart and it feels like she still has it. I don't really know how I feel about calling her, I was just being honest and wanted her to know my true feeling. I just don't know what to think anymore.
Re:son of a B***h picadilly: D'oh, sorry Kinney, sucks sometimes, eh?
The first women that I actually thought about asking out? I was chatting her up a couple weeks, really freindly & all that, then one week she causally mentions she's just gotten married. :P Like, I know she knew I was single & maybe she didn't realize what I was thinking but I guess she should have. lol , ya right. :P
Anyway, hang in there, things will work out eventually, your not that far off from where you can be. Trust me, someone is out there waiting for you. :)
Re:son of a B***h amess: Kinney, one step forward, two steps back. Be patient, you'll get there. :)
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