Re:How do you deal with kids? amess: Lookin4alite,
I don't mean any harm, but are you sure you aren't using your children as pawns? If I'm wrong, tell me, but it sounds like you want to keep the children away from her because of how she hurt you. Children do best when they have both parents, and if she can parent, it would only harm your children not to see more of her. Please don't use children to punish the ex. Take care.
