My gf has guy friends... guitarstrummin08: My girlfriend has older guy friends that she's had way before she met me. She used to like them awhile ago, but the problem is I am positive that they still like her because they make moves on her.
When I asked her about it, she told me that she agreed but she didnt care what they did and she said she justs blows it off.
So she continues to hang out with them like all hours in the morning and she knows that i dont like it (im not saying she should stop, but i dont feel like im under consideration when shes making desicions). She then told me that these guys were losers and she didnt want to hang out with them anymore because they hit on her.
One night, I asked her how her night was and she told me that she was just chilling with her girlfriend all night but later I found out that she DID hang out with the same group of guys that night and not tell me about it. So these guys continue to talk to her and ask her out on one-on-one dinners and one of them is now her personal trainer.
I seriously don't know what to do. She tells me that nothing will ever happened but I'm so confused I don't know what to do.
Re: My gf has guy friends... wizer_now: You're headed for trouble with this girl and you know it. The only thing you can do is bolt. It's going to get tougher every day.
Re: My gf has guy friends... 2be: There is nothing wrong with a woman having guy friends. However, I'd have a problem with my girlfriend hanging out with ANYONE male or female, until all hours of the morning. and the biggest red flag I see is that she flat out LIED to you about how she is spending her time.
If she respected you and your relationship, she would take into consideration your feelings and not lie to you.
Sounds to me she has a very low self-esteem and needs a ton of guys paying constant attention and flirting in order for her to feel good about herself. Her flippant "they are losers" comment is just a cover...she's blowing smoke so you don't get any more upset than you already are.
You deserve better treatment, my friend.
Re: My gf has guy friends... surprised: I agree the bigger concern is the dishonesty. Friends of the opposite gender aren't necessarily dangerous unless it turns sexual and until someone starts lying.
Re: My gf has guy friends... Fendann: Absolutely! You should heed the warnings and see the red flags, man. It's time to realize that she's only leading you toward heartache and trouble.
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