How do I deal with this?? doodlesmore: I now have my daughter telling me how daddy and "A" are going to get married...... :o...omg.......
This is new for me.......my daughter actually talking about how her daddy is going to marry his g/f....
my ex and I are not even divorced yet.....
I guess I am not upset so much about my ex moving on as I am the words comming out of my daughters mouth.......
I know it would happen eventually....he would move on....i would move on....the kids would acknowledge his partner and mine(whenever i get one)....but....I guess it's just kinda like shell shock.....hearing her say...."daddy is going to get married"........ :-X
this ......this is a brand new set of feelings I have not had to deal with.....
how the hell do you cope with that?
Re: How do I deal with this?? alonewith2: I have no idea how you would cope with something like that. Oh my...
I had a similar conversation with myself the other night. I called the stbxh to ask him something about our daughter. His answering machine picked up and instead of hearing his usual message, I was confronted with a message recorded by his gf. It sounded like she said, "Hello, you've reached the (insert his last name)'s. We aren't home right now. Leave a message."
I just stood there holding the phone speechless. We, just like you, aren't divorced yet either. So I'm pretty sure they haven't gotten married yet, but you never know what two idiots in a backwoods town are capable of doing. ::)
Re: How do I deal with this?? doodlesmore: wow.......I know i would have been speachless.....
whats even more stupid about my ex......is that I know he does not want to marry her.....atleast thats what he tells me....maybe it's just more lies from him....idunno.....he has told so many lies to so many people I can't believe anything he tells me anymore....
maybe if i heard from him that he is actually wanting to get married ,I would not be so schocked ???
uugggg........why can't he just be honest......tell me upfront?.... :-\
Re: How do I deal with this?? craez: how do you deal?
with a kick to his nuts.
by the way, if someone lies to you more than twice, it's a pattern, not an accident. he's shown you a pattern of inexcusable behavior. i'm sure he's telling you one thing and telling HER something else. liar, liar pants on fire. don't believe anything he tells you any more.
and i don't know what the odds are, but how long could this new marriage really last? i mean there has to be some statistical data somewhere that shows people who jump into new relationships before resolving the end of another one don't stay together for long.
YOU, miss sassy pants, are gonna meet someone fabulous who loves and respects you. you'll see.
Re: How do I deal with this?? doodlesmore: :D.......*miss sassy pants*....lol.....
for whatever reason that phrase made me chuckle :P....
I know I am an idiot sometimes for believing his crap...i know I am......I guess I just don't understand why he would lie....i am not saying I never have lied....or bent the truth before.....but as far as things go right now I am not going to straight out lie to him about the two of us.....what would be the point? *sigh*****
so i guess I don't understand why he would lie to me......no point.
I guess his lying complex does not need a ryhym or reason??.....thus the compulsive lying all the time....... ::)
As far as his new relationship lasting......yeah....the odds are against them.....thats for sure.......
as far as me meeting someone.... :P...blahhhh!!......not sure anyone would put up with my sassy self :P... :D...lol
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