Re:Grass is greener Tantan: I get the same think Kelly, everytime he does anything its my fault. Get this, one night when he had our children I was driving by near his house and this strange feeling came over me that he had the OW there ( we had an agreement, she was not to be there while the children were), sure enough she was there. He told me it was my fault, I had argued with him all day and he needed someone to talk to ! I asked him what happened to the telephone !!!!
Blame is there middle names.....only way for them to justify and feel better.
Cloud, I really dont know how you get over that except that remember that nobody has the perfect life perfect relationship. everything is great now because its the beginning and they are in love........give it some time and real life will catch up with them.