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Re: It still hurts. lostinva: I'm glad you've found someone who makes you happy and someone who is understanding about your situation. Just look forward to the day when you can be happy for your wife and she can be happy for you. I'm sure that day will come.
Re: It still hurts. wizer_now: [quote author=lostinva link=topic=40531.msg448833#msg448833 date=1169910694">
I'm glad you've found someone who makes you happy and someone who is understanding about your situation. Just look forward to the day when you can be happy for your wife and she can be happy for you. I'm sure that day will come.
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I guess there's something to be said for jumping right into a new relationship...the only way that "happy" day will ever come is if we get through this divorce without destroying each other. And that's not looking too good.


Re: It still hurts. smokin: is this freckles?  ;D

anyways, i fully understand. my ex c*m dumpster was doing my ex best friend, and the pain of that, took a very very long time to get over. now the anger, is another story....

keep your head up, make sure this new girl doesnt get hurt, and you have always sounded like your shits together.

goose luck. you need it. oh, and btw, is your ex in her 20's, or is her daughter in her 20's? i was lost there.....lol
Re: It still hurts. wizer_now: [quote author=GooseTapeMan link=topic=40531.msg448852#msg448852 date=1169913242">
is this freckles? 
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How Did you Know that I Was Freckles


[quote author=GooseTapeMan link=topic=40531.msg448852#msg448852 date=1169913242">
you have always sounded like your shits together.
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That's just my cover. Sometimes my anger and frustration bleeds through and is expressed as dry humor and sarcasm.

[quote author=GooseTapeMan link=topic=40531.msg448852#msg448852 date=1169913242">
is your ex in her 20's, or is her daughter in her 20's? i was lost there.....lol
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I think you're joking, but in case not...stbx is almost 50.

BTW Goose, my signature is bigger than your signature.
Re: It still hurts. angelfire: Hi wizer,

I am sorry you have to go through this.

One question though...how can you move forward with the girlfriend while still looking back ? 

This woman you are seing on top of being very understanding must also feel somewhat like seconds. I don't want to seem rude, it's just that it's hard to understand still having feeling for the ex and bringing another woman while your heart is not completely healed.

Chantal

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