hurts like hell ackermaniac: Hello..
This was the past. A new and bright day had comed, and im getting on thanks, to alot of suportive people, and my lovely girlfriend JO, baby i love you and cant eksplaine how much you mean to me. Thank you baby for beeing in my life.
Re: hurts like hell Fendann: Well, teh relashionship wasnt that long, so I would just walk awaye and leeve her alone. There are plentee of other fishies out there for you to date, and I would go find won for yerself.
Re: hurts like hell wizer_now: You are taking it pretty hard because she was your first love, and the first woman you were ever with sexually.
You probably buried all of your emotions for a while after you broke up, and now they suddenly resurfaced with a lot of force, and you feel like you have hit rock bottom. Welcome to the rollercoaster that is life. You're going to have ups and downs. Just remember, when you feel really down, the good news is that there is only one place to go. (up).
Just imagine what it will be like in the future. Someday you will meet another woman, and you will have the experience (both emotionally and sexually) from your first relationship, to take with you to the new one.
Finally. You did the right think by going "no-contact". She's got a boyfriend, and she has apparently moved on with her life. She wants you as a friend, which is too painful for you, at least right now. That's called "having your cake and eating it too". You don't need her in your life right now. You need to heal. You made the right choice by making her leave your house. Don't beat yourself up over it.
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F02, I don't advocate bestiality, even in cases such as this.
Re: hurts like hell Magalucia: The loss of your first love is horribly painful. Cry, feel bad for yourself, be angry, but if you start feeling like you want to kill yourself, please seek help from a mental health professional.
Then, move on with your life. See lots and lots of girls before you get serious again. You are young. Live and enjoy your life. Have some adventures before you try to settle with one girl again.
You will feel better in time. Really.
Re: hurts like hell ackermaniac: Hey..
Thanks to all for your words, it kinda make me feel bether, always nice to look that other take the time to give me feed-back.
I have in common with a really good friend and my parents decided to get somme help from a "mental health professional" I just dont understand that it is nessesary ??? About breaking the contact with he I relly find it hard!!!! About finding a new girl i really find that hard, since I never have been good with girls! But i guess I just have to take it as it comes.
But thanks again really nice to know that it is possibel to get adwise for you guys!
I just wonder, actualy i am kinda upset. why do she contackt me, when she has a new boyfriend, just to glow or what, or is it a try to make he feel bether??
But please keep the post comming I really hope i get thru this, but its just a very hard battel, and from time to time i wonder if i gonner win it or not
I also wonder since she moved on so fast dos it means that i ment nothing to he??
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