Re: wondering... weezer_sister: [quote author=ebl link=topic=40569.msg449802#msg449802 date=1170081011">
Perhaps I should use my website to make her feel as if he is contacting me! :-* Just a little insinuation, enough to drive them mad...
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ebl, i think u should stop disturbing them / sabotaj their relationship..
yes i know it is fun / self-satisfy thing to do... but believe me, it will prolong / interfere ur healing process because it prove that u havent let ALL go..
furthermore, it will not let u living in a peaceful and healthy way of life..
let go.. and stop hurting yourself... train urself to forgive.. until u really forgive..
Re: wondering... ebl: why is it that people always say that, "Don't let them know that you are suffering"
Is it because you lower the value of your love when you're suffering??
I notice that they only come back when they realize that you can live very well without them.
Re: wondering... 2be: I think the question you need to ask yourself is: Would you take him back if he came back?
If yes, then continue to search for your answer.
If no, why are you wasting energy on wondering? If you won't take him back and he's not coming back, your energy is better spent on YOU.
