Re: OK, SO WHAT DO I DO NOW ???? ajw: yeah that worries me she took the bills,i think she may pay the bills(which is good),but she is doing it to make it look like she pays the bills so she can get you thrown out of the house
Re: OK, SO WHAT DO I DO NOW ???? Magalucia: I am so sorry you are going through this. Is there any friend or family member you can lean on. I think we can all tell you it gets better with time but those first few days are horrible and you need some support.
Re: OK, SO WHAT DO I DO NOW ???? Fendann: Who's name is the house in? The bills? Cars? Anything else?
Cover your arse!!!
Re: OK, SO WHAT DO I DO NOW ???? ajw: Yeah the fact she has someone calling while she's cleaning all the bills out the house sounds like she has someone coaching her what to do......
I know you feel bad right now,but she plans to have you out on your ass,however low you think she will go....she will go lower.......cover your ass
Re: OK, SO WHAT DO I DO NOW ???? Lostsoul: THANK YOU ALL so much for your input and suggestions. I must admit I never thought of the bills as tools/weapons. Your insights are frankly what has kept me going the last few days. I know on a certain mental level what's happening but she has been my world for a long time. Mom and Dad have been gone a long time Dad died in 1981 and Mom followed in 1989. I guess I'm guilty of stupidity as dumb as this sounds she was the only "family" I had and the only one...I really.. Ok looking back and remembering I can see what a fool I've been. I'm doing my best to hang tough. I feel like my world is crumbling beneath my feet. I keep asking myself why over and over why ???. I'll get through this with a little help from you guys. I've got to get my ____ together for work. I've just never felt this alone since my parents passed.
I thought I was the strong one in this relationship as I have always took care of things for her..At least that's what I thought. I know I MUST get up, man up and keep going. :( to this 8) I gotta keep going.
