Help, remind me why Im doing this Tantan: Tonight my stbx ( who's has a OW, and wont stop the relationship right now ) and I are going to sign papers tonight.
I spoke to him this morning and he told me again that he really does not want to go. I know I have to go because if he really cared about not getting this divorce he would make the sacrifice of letting this girl go.
Therapist says he has an addiction to "romantic love", he's not really in love with this girl, he's in love with being in love type thing. He believes that is what true love is...........
Please remind me why I have to do this......Im feeling a weak momment coming on.
Re:Help, remind me why Im doing this Kinney26: because this guy is not good enough for you. You deserve a guy that loves you and is devoted to you. He isn't it. You will never be happy with someone you can never trust.
Re:Help, remind me why Im doing this Tantan: thanks Kinney,
thats right I will never be able to trust him again, most of the time I know i would never be able to have a healthy relationship with him even if he did come back.
Merci Merci
Re:Help, remind me why Im doing this cloud: I agree with Kinney.
And "romantic love" is not a lasting kind of love.
Cause the romance part comes and goes, but it's the trusting, committed love that lasts.
And that's what you deserve.
