Re:It's Friday, and I'm not in love JTS: You said it. I could always tell when the ex and OM were fighting because she was always more focused on being a, well you know, to me. A couple of times I was even tempted to send her flowers in his name to get her off my back. Give them some rope and they will hang themselves. :)
Re:It's Friday, and I'm not in love SherylLynn: My ex told me once when he was drunk that he would always pick a fight with me when he felt guilty about something he had done.
So that would be the reason we fought for so many years.... he had been cheating for 3 years and he had to make it my fault some how.
Sheryl
Re:It's Friday, and I'm not in love amess: Yes, to justify that the marriage wasn't working. Been there. My stbx said he would provoke to see how far he could go, to see if I trusted him. I told him only his mother would put up with that, and that I would trust him a lot more if he didn't test me. I guess, though, we both tested eachother. I did, once, right before the wedding, call him by my previous BF's name. Accidental, but a very bad error. ( they both had the same name, just different versions of nicknames).
