Re:It's Friday, and I'm not in love Kinney26: Sounds like you feel exactly how I've felt the last few days. The good thing is, I feel a little better today and you will probably too. This is a ridiculous rollercoaster we are on right now and I'm ready to get off before I puke. It is just evil how this works. Good man finds seemingly good woman. Woman stabs man in back years later. Man feels like pile of crap. Evil woman happy.
I am ready for good man to make evil woman realize how stupid she was. I don't see that happening any time soon, but I wish it would. I don't exactly know what my purpose is either, but I don't think it is the stbx's job to define that. Just be a father, and take care of yourself and hopfully all this crap about eventually being happy will really come true.
Re:It's Friday, and I'm not in love recentlydiscarded: Well in my case he was the EVIL man who must have accidentally dropped his morals and decency somewhere and never went back to find them, but yeah...same situation.
ANother thing that is bothering me today: I am not even thinking about sex with another man. No desire to be with anyone but my husband. But I am being realistic about the fact that he is more than likely already sleeping with women in our home after less than 3 weeks. Even if we did reconcile knowing he slept with other women when we werent even divorced yet would eat at me forever.
What an a$$!
Re:It's Friday, and I'm not in love cloud: >:( I am sick of feeling like there is a cloud over my head. I'm sick of mind-reading what my stbx is doing with her life. I've just go let it go and get on with my life. But how easy is that when we share a child?
;D I do have my daughter this weekend and I plan to take a million and one pictures of her.
??? I just don't have a clue where my life is going. I'd like to just go along with the ride but I'm a person who needs a direction and a purpose--both are lacking.
Re:It's Friday, and I'm not in love Kinney26: Sorry Cloud,
not much to say except I know exactly how you feel and if I figure some of this crap out I will be sure to share. :-\
Re:It's Friday, and I'm not in love amess: I hope my cannot be too soon enough stbx has already fallen in love, so we can get this charade over with, and that he is flying high, so he starts to feel magnanimous, and makes even more stupid mistakes. Then, I would dance a jig of glee. There's happiness in possibility and freedom, too.
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