Therapy made me think sandy: OK. Today was my second therapy appointment by myself. I went once with my stbx but he opted not to go anymore and call it quits.
Just to say I believe therapy is helping and those days I feel much better.
Today my therapist asked me what attracted me to my stbx to the point where I believe it will be hard to find another person like him.
So I answered that I admire him and look up to him because when he makes up his mind and have a goal, he follows it no matter how hard it is.
And then my therapist answered that he is basically doing that right now.
And then I realized he is right.
His goal is not to be married anymore and although he probably does not want to hurt me, he is doing what his goal is, he is doing exactly what I fell in love with about him only this time it is against me and it really sucks.
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