Re:need advice SherylLynn: I am in the same situation right now. My stbx asked to come home during our mediation appt and then only waited 3 weeks before taking up with th OW again.
Needless to say I had the courage to do the divorce thing once, now I will have to get the courage to follow through again.
Re:need advice JTS: The courage comes much easier the send time around.
Re:need advice erikaj: Thank you to everyone and the advice. No he didn't come home and you were right It is easier the second time around and I don't want to spend the rest of my life watching over my shoulder.
