Re:The Lone Ojarian trumpy: amess...you lost me on the house of mirth thing. i hope i don't sound too negative-- i actually think all this is good in the end- it just sucks really bad to go through it. i think is important to remember that life isn't always fair-- bad things happen to good people and all those other cliches that would apply.
Re:The Lone Ojarian amess: read some of the posts, there is humor here, as well. It's not all sadness and tears, although that is the majority.
Re:The Lone Ojarian picadilly: Amess is right. We do add alot of humour into some of our posts & replys. I think in the end, we need that little bit of something to ease this ordeal. & when someone is feeling down, a smile caused by a new friend half way across the country can really help.
Be well.
Re:The Lone Ojarian RecoveringinDE: I seem to be one of the lucky ones with my in-laws. I told them from the beginning after I found out my stbx was cheating on me that I did not want them to take sides. The only side anyone should be on was our daughters. They agreed. I also told them that I would like to continue a friendship with them and have also been in contact w/his family and advsd them the same. They all agree. I love his family and know that his family loves me.
I actually went to my in-laws house at the beach this past weekend and spent time with them and my brother in law and his family. Also went to another relatives house for dinner. They all told me to make sure I call them if I ever need anything. And they all told me that they were happy to see that I was holding up so well. Other than our daughter of course, one reason I'm keeping things amicable is his family. I know that blood is thicker than water and I want to make sure my daughter has close family ties to his side.
