Re:The Lone Ojarian cvictory: i am definitely going through a similar experience. when my wife left me, she completely shut out her parents and siblings. i went to them for help and they were very supportive of me and couldn't explain their daughters actions. now that she is back and moved in with them, she is feeding them all of this crap about the state of our marriage over the last year, which is totally untrue. she's trying to justify her actions over the last 2 months and make it seem like she was the victim.
i'll probably talk to her parents at some point in the near future and just let them know that there are two sides to every story and i feel very different about things than she does. i don't want to get into details with them, just want to let them know i whole heartedly disagree with their daughter. i know they'll support her through this no matter what and i don't want to argue with her or them anymore.
Re:The Lone Ojarian trumpy: first of all, what are most of you guys doing up at 5 am on a sunday?
i've found pretty much the same thing, in-laws will tend to believe them, even though they are doing most of the wrong and making the bad decisions. my stbx has either cut off completely or suceeded in lying to all her friends and family about her drinking, other problems and what is going on in our situation. it seems like they need to isolate themselves from or lie to anyone that might possibly set them straight and confront them about what they are doing. when you are in the wrong, and deep inside... you know it, it's hard to convince yourself and everyone around you that you are doing the right thing for the right reasons. it's easier to just lie to yourself and avoid everyone else.
Re:The Lone Ojarian seth: My ex's parents, after seven years, were always bugging us about when we were getting married and her father even reminded her that I had really good career prospects and seemed to be trying to sell me to her....
After she left, however, they circled the wagons and respected her "decision-making" abilities and spun it this way: she was going through a difficult but liberating time.
They're all the same. She is 30 and even had her Italian daddy call me up to threaten me about giving her more of our joint possessions even those this rich SOB never supported her through grad. school and I paid for everything....
In-laws are all the same. Does it mean nothing to them that you are the "esteemed" mother of their grandchild. There was once a day when it was shameful for a man to leave his young family, nevermind kicking them out w/ nothing....
But there is no shame anymore, just loyalty to the individual.... HOw is it that he could kick YOU out? Don't you have any legal ground to stand on? What about child support and alimony? You're still his wife afterall....
By the way, my ex made up all of these justifications, trying to tell me that I wasn't happy w/ her either.... Actually I was happy and I had no idea that she was so unhappy w/ me....
They're all the same.... Selfish.... Mother's Day should be 365 1/4 days a year, by the way.
Re:The Lone Ojarian amess: Trumpy, this is the house of pain. No one sleeps. No one eats. ( although it can be the house of mirth, too.) ;)
Re:The Lone Ojarian JTS: You said it amess. The deamons come out at night. But for me it has been the ulitimate diet plan. Too bad I wasn't really overweight at the time. :-\
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