Really Alone! hurtingverymuch: Well, here I am sitting here REALLY ALONE! This is the first weekend without my son (s2bx has him for the weekend). He's been gone about an hour and it's already driving me crazy.
I thought I felt alone when my s2bx moved out, but wow, this is overwhelming.
I've been trying to prepare myself for this for the last week and a half since we made the arrangements and I thought I had all the emotional bases covered but apparently NOT! I also thought this the day my s2bx moved out too, but that didn't turn out like I had pictured it either.
I think the next 2 days will be the slowest days of my life. It's just too d@mn quiet here.
Do these feelings get any better as time passes and once this becomes more routine?
Thanks for listening!
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Hurt
Re: Really Alone! insomniak23:
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Well, here I am sitting here REALLY ALONE! This is the first weekend without my son (s2bx has him for the weekend). He's been gone about an hour and it's already driving me crazy.
I thought I felt alone when my s2bx moved out, but wow, this is overwhelming.
I've been trying to prepare myself for this for the last week and a half since we made the arrangements and I thought I had all the emotional bases covered but apparently NOT! I also thought this the day my s2bx moved out too, but that didn't turn out like I had pictured it either.
I think the next 2 days will be the slowest days of my life. It's just too d@mn quiet here.
Do these feelings get any better as time passes and once this becomes more routine?
Thanks for listening!
Hugs
Hurt
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I know how you feel my ex has my kids and even though i'm use to it I feel really lonley now. It doesn't help that I don't have nothing planned or to do but i know how you feel. If you want to talk I have aol instant messenger which is collegeguy0908 or MSN messenger which is insomniak79@hotmail.com.
Re: Really Alone! inebr: Im so sorry you're feeling so alone right now.... Whew, I'm sure battling that myself. Today's not a good one for me and the weekend is looking a little intimidating.
Ok, here are some of the things I **try** to do to battle this feeling: Do some nice things for myself, even if it's just preparing some food or renting a movie I've been meaning to see, buying a book I've been wanting. Do some exercise. Call a friend and go out and do something, anything. Make a hair appointment, a pedicure.
Ok, I'm probably not a lot of help here. But just wanted to say, hey, you're not so alone.
inebr
Re: Really Alone! justmenow: Yes, yes, yes. It does get better. I'm telling you this from experience. Plan something for yourself this weekend - a shopping trip, or get started on a hobby you've put off for a while or visit a relative or friend you've been neglecting. Believe me, you don't want to sit around all weekend lamenting the absence of your son. It will get to the point where you will actually look forward to a couple of days of peace every now and then, believe me.
If you want to, call me this weekend. I'll be around most of the day on Saturday. I can talk you through it. I'll IM you my number or if you'd rather I call you, IM me *your* number. I know you will make it through this!! It's just another test from above!!
Re: Really Alone! hurtingverymuch: Hey, thanks for the responses!
This really sucks!
insomniak, thanks for the support and yeah it REALLY doesn't help when you have nothing planned for the weekend, as I don't really either. Had to stick around the house most of the day too, cause I was expecting a call from someone that was supposed to be coming in from out of town to take a look at something I've got for sale, but guess what, they didn't call either. Boy, when it rains it pours!
Hey, inebr, you are alot of help and thanks too! Well, my house is spotless, don't think I could find anything more to clean if I tried, h*ll I even got the laundry done already. I think tomorrow, I will go to the bookstore and pick up a couple of books that justmenow had recommended to me, maybe hang out there for awhile. They have a small coffee shop inside the bookstore and you can sit and read there. So I think I'll try that!. Beyond that, who knows?
Thanks again, guys.
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Hurt
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