I am Overcome pisces22: I have only been around here for a little over a week but I wanted you all to know how much I needed to find this place. I am crying as I write this because I have been reading a lot of posts tonight and you are all saying things that I have been feeling. I live in a city I moved to for my stbx's job far away from family and friends. I feel like a fish out of water in some ways because I have no one in my life who has been separated/divorced before to talk to. Not one family member, not one friend. But now, i have somewhere to go everyday if I want. And you understand... :'( :'( :'( you understand. Its like a mini miracle. Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you
Re: I am Overcome Percy123: I moved for my ex. It is lonely feeling wehn you are on the rocks. The isolation makes the break-up so much more painful. Can you get back home? Do you have friends and family in another place?
Re: I am Overcome pisces22: Yes, I am moving back to be close to family and friends at the end of the school year (i'm a teacher) I have applied at the school boards and am getting ready to put MY house up for sale... feels good.
Re: I am Overcome Percy123: Healthy move. I retreated after the battle and the retreat helped me ultimately win the war. You can sometimes take those people for granted when life is good but it never fails to impress how good they are when you really need them. Even if they don't know it. Take it slow and steady. Nothing wrong with selling your house from a distance either. The money spends the same.
I hit my sisters sunporch for a while. Humbling but better to be near ones that loved me...My team.
Re: I am Overcome pisces22: Sound advice... I sometimes can't believe I am making it here by myself but you know, I have been doing everytrhing within my power to take care of myself and I ma actually healthier and I think happier than I have been in a long time. Which sounds weird considering. I guess you don't realize how unhappy and stifling a marriage can be until you are out of it. One can be happy and lonely and slightly confused at the same time, can't they??
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