Oh my F*CKING GOD! WhiskeyGirl: My ex husband is a FREAK! I cannot even belive this shit!
It is now 1 in the morning my time.....I just kicked his drunk, high ass out of MY HOUSE!
Wanna know how that happened? Well I'll tell ya!
At 11:00 I get a phone call asking what I am doing? DUH! I'm sleeping dumbass! I have to be up at 5:30. well, he slurs, do you have any plans for the next hour? OMG >:( Umm...yeah SLEEPING.
So he explains in his obviously drugged up way that he had to switch planes in Vancouver and missed the flight and now he wants me to pick him up at the airport.
Yeah.......NO!
But the next flight is at 7 in the morning...what is he gonna do :'(
Yeah..ummm...kinda falls under NOT MY PROBLEM!
Just so ya'll know....we have been separated for 3 yrs...I am happily engaged and pregnant with another man.....AND I have had basically no problems with my ex since he finished a very expensive and time comsuming REHAB program!
Anyway, he starts swearing at me on the phone, I don't even know why I bother trying to reason with him...but I say...."Look, C, even if I cared and wanted to pick you up I couldn't, M isn't here and the kids would be alone.
He tells me to leave my oldest in charge! My oldest just turned EIGHT!
The man is mental, he argues with me for at least 10 minutes about how its perfectly acceptable to leave an 8 yr old at home alone with her 3 and 4 yr old sisters in the middle of the night!! WHAT A FUCKING FREAK!
So he finally yells, "THANKS FOR THE HELP!" and hangs up.
Good, I try to get back to sleep.....15 minutes later...phone rings. Its him...."SO if I pay $140 for a fucking cab can I at least use your vehicle whileI am there?
OMG! While you are here? WTF are you talking about? And NO you can't!
Fine, he slurs...fuck you, I'll just reverse the flight and not see the kids at all. (He lives in another province)
So I say "Okay" and hang up....go and lock the doors and go back to sleep.
I wake up half an hour ago to him walking down the hall dragging his suitcase behind.
I get up to see that he is also carrying an open bottel of tequila and taking the occassional swig right out of the bottle.
Oh this is fucking lovely....My drunk, drugging, angry and formerly abusive ex husband obviously STILL has a key to this house...which we haven't lived in for about 6 yrs. Fucking lovely....and my kids are all peacefully sleeping.
not for long of course.....cuz asswipe decides to cut into me as loud as a drunk idiot can be about what a BITCH I am!
Anyway...I DID get his ass out of my house and watched him weave his way down the long deserted farm road in the pissing down rain tequila in hand.
But, my kids are upset....I can't sleep of course....becasue I know this man well enough to know....that when that bottle is gone...he'll be madder than ever and back for more :-[
Obviously I will just call the cops if he shows up again...but that just means that my kids, who have finally settled in to the normal and happy life that we have with M (My SO)...will get to see their dad, once again, acting like an animal and taken away in cuffs.....
GREAT FUCKING NIGHT FOR ME >:(
Thanks for listening :'(
Re: Oh my F*CKING GOD! craez: um...ok. your post makes my post about seeing a pic of my ex kissing his FUGLY new girlfriend sound piddly. good lord. well, at least it was raining....haha...
Re: Oh my F*CKING GOD! Temporary: WG, are you safe this morning?
Re: Oh my F*CKING GOD! LostTeacher: WG...what a terrible story.
i am also hoping that you are ok this morning.
the importance of changing locks....never can be more important. especially when you don't think something like this could happen.
LT
Re: Oh my F*CKING GOD! Spike: Everything OK, T?
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