Re: Oh my F*CKING GOD! WhiskeyGirl: Thanks guys
Everything is okay this morning....as okay as it can be anyway :-\
He called again about an hour later wanting me to pick him up from the motel at the end of the street. This is a HOLE of a motel...like druggie haven....and THEY wouldn't even give him a room...THATS how bad he was.
I told him no and to leave me alone and if he came back on my property I would call the cops. After some thinly veiled threats of killing himself...he hung up. I brought all the kids into my bed and "tried" quite unsuccessfully to sleep. But at least I knew the kids would be safe.....He never did show up again.
I just got a call from him still being an ass....saying that because I'm making it "impossible" to see the kids I can forget about child support (Child support? Whats that?....you mean you might have actually decided to PAY some one day? ::) )
I told him that was fine...he could go explain to the judge that his bitch ex wife refused to leave the kids alone to pick his drunk, high ass up so he could see the kids at 1 in the morning high as a kite......I'm sure they will punish me greatly for that ::)
He called me a few more names, said I was being completley "unreasonable" and hung up.
My kids are okay...my oldest takes it the hardest and wants to believe in her dad.....this morning she told me that she would have been "fine" to watch the kids...I should have picked up daddy so he wouldn't get upset like that. I explained to her as best as I could that daddy knows better but he isn't doing well right now and I will NEVER leave her or her sisters alone...her safety is FAR more important than her daddy being "upset" She seemed to understand....but obvioulsy just wants us all to get along...this is hard for her.....at times she asks if she can call M "dad"....she wants a normal life so badly...but then he shows up and pulls this shit and she's right back to feeling guilty and wanting to be the "peacemaker" It breaks my heart :'(
We will get through it...within a few months we will be moved in with M and this shit wont happen.....I hope upon hope anyway :-\
Thanks again for your supoort and concern you guys are so great.......I thought I was done with this drama :-\
Re: Oh my F*CKING GOD! Spike: [quote author=WG link=topic=41026.msg458309#msg458309 date=1170959279">
I thought I was done with this drama :-\
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This is life, Baby, the drama never ends! But, we all get through it with the help of each other.
Re: Oh my F*CKING GOD! icwtsmnl: do you mind if i ask why you kept picking up the phone?
Re: Oh my F*CKING GOD! WhiskeyGirl: [quote author=icwtsmnl link=topic=41026.msg458515#msg458515 date=1170963197">
do you mind if i ask why you kept picking up the phone?
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Actually...mostly becasue if it left it ring it would wake up all the kids. I REALLY should NOT leave the phone off the hook because many times I am called in the night for a problem at the barn, a colicky or foaling horse, etc.
BUT....as sad as it is....his behavior on the phone gives me an indication of whats to come so I can know what to expect. I can usually tell by how angry and violent he is on the phone whether or not he will show up at my door again.....and vice versa....if he has calmed down and showing remorse...I can usually talk him into sleeping it off.....THEN I can actually sleep.
Re: Oh my F*CKING GOD! 2be: Wow. Unbelievable... I'm sorry you and your chitlens have to go through with that mess. Other than that... i'm pretty much speechless.
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