Re: a short note.... JadedButtafly: you know fellas i did post this here, i'll give you that much. But why do you have to sit around.... and POP peoples bubbles let them be happy when they can be, don't be an ass bc someone else is happy and you're not, its just not right! He is not just saying the right things, his actions are speaking as well. I Just don't get some people......... ::)
Re: a short note.... snkpack: They're just a bunch of bullies Ess. :P
Re: a short note.... Fendann: Where would you ever get the idea that I'm not happy from reading my comment? I'm happier than I've ever been, not that it's any of your business. I've posted things on here, to which people have commented good and bad alike. You take it all in, keep what you need, and toss the rest out the window. You don't like what someone has to say, don't read it, and don't take it to heart.
I have more of a life than to piss in anyone's Cheerio's on a daily basis. I don't sit around all day long and think of ways to burst peoples' bubbles, annoy them, and look negatively on anything. I DO, however, look at the entire perspective on many things, and make an educated judgment on what I see. That being said, the reason for my first comment is in the next paragraph, so if you don't want to read it, just hit the BACK button on your web browser right now....
I've seen your vents, and all of your posts concerning your husband. Things that he's said and done in the past have pointed toward not being able to change, or not wanting to change, regardless of the situation. In my experience, you can't change a leopard's spots. But then again, it just might be that I have not seen enough of the world to lay my eyes upon a leopard turned puma....If he changed, he changed. Good for you. I hope you two live a long and happy life together, never again to repeat history. If not.... /shrug.....
Re: a short note.... 2be: Wasn't trying to pop anything of yours Essie... just was trying to point out that I'd like to see you happy with yourself and not let anyone, even your husband, be the only reason why you're happy. If he is truly changing, then that is cause for a great deal of happiness.... just don't let it be your only esteem builder. Does that make sense?
Anyway.... wasn't trying to piss you off... I only meant well. And didn't appreciate the "don't be an ass bc someone else is happy and you're not" line. I think I was far from being an ass, and I am perfectly happy with my life, thanks very much.
Re: a short note.... JadedButtafly: you know 2be i was never really referring to you....at all. I just feel the need to express to you all that I don't think it is right for someone to make someone else feel like crap.... I rarely feel good about me, i dont need someone to come along and slap crap in my face when I'm finally having a good day. I dont need anyone else to make me feel bad, I do enough of that to myself. I just want to feel good about me and not have someone trying to take those rare moments from me. For me being at ojar is about connecting to people who have been or are going through what i'm going through and making it through this not feeling completely alone. it isn't coming here and finding every post i can to turn around, insult, bad mouth, wtf ever you call it. I come here for the lil' comfort and joy i get through the day, and I dont come here to feel worse than I felt whe I got here.
