Aggression fkunone: I'd like to hear YOUR definition of aggression and how you feel it has helped or hindered you in your separation, divorce and/or journey as you go beyond things.
Re: Aggression yella: Aggression is one of those things that can get out of hand if it's not controlled, and when emotions run high, this can be dangerous.
I believe in the positive form of aggression. Like getting up the nerve to stand your ground when you believe something is right, and not backing down. Or when you've taken abuse from someone for so long, and you stand up for yourself and retake control of your life.
The negative form of aggression though, well, kind of self explanitory. You can't allow yourself to get so aggressive that you steamroll the ones you love and begin to suffocate them.
Knowing the difference between the two is the most important thing.
