Re: 7 months, and I still can't let go. chaos40: What did your friend do to block access to mypsace?
Re: 7 months, and I still can't let go. LostTeacher: don't beat yourself up over it.
i am 2 years in, and i still have times when i obsess. espeically when i "accidently" get info about him and his new life with the OW and her kids.
you are doing what you need to....but sometimes you have to do more, like the blocking. the more you feed the fire, the more the fire continues to grow.
LT
Re: 7 months, and I still can't let go. wizer_now: [quote author=chaos40 link=topic=41082.msg459336#msg459336 date=1171042711">
What did your friend do to block access to mypsace?
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There are many filtering programs.
This one is specific for Myspace, among other sites.
Re: 7 months, and I still can't let go. masterlow: [quote author=wizer_now link=topic=41082.msg459341#msg459341 date=1171042895">
[quote author=chaos40 link=topic=41082.msg459336#msg459336 date=1171042711">
What did your friend do to block access to mypsace?
[/quote">
There are many filtering programs.
This one is specific for Myspace, among other sites.
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My home PC runs linux. My buddy installed about five different mechanisms to block my access to myspace. Mostly Firewall rules (IPTABLES) and Name resolution (DNS, hosts, etc.) alterations via recurring CRON jobs. I got obsessive, found them all, and removed them.
The bottom line is that if I want to look I can. All the blocking mechanisms in the world could not stop me when I decide I'm going to look.
And I can't get rid of my internet connection. I work a great deal from the home, and it requires 24/7 network access (I'm an IT proffesional).
Re: 7 months, and I still can't let go. chaos40: Ok.. so your a pretty savy computer user or you would not be using linux and iptables... Give me temporary ssh/root access to your PC and I'll blow it away for you
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