"stating the obvious" post icwtsmnl: forigve the overused topic, but its the venting section. i must vent. sort of.
i'm telling myself a hundred times not to expect a single thing on that awful date next Wed, the 14th. I know he'll do nothing, and why should he? We're not together and haven't been for a while. And its not like he even did anything for you last Vday when you WERE together. I guess its the stupid side of me.
Yes, I know there are plenty of things for singles to do on that day, or doing nothing at all is perfectly acceptable too. I know already.
I wonder if he thinks of me at all when all these annoying Vday commercials come on the tv?
I shouldn't care, I shouldn't bother, I shoudn't think about it. Maybe something will come of the dating site I joined lasted night. PLEASE let something come of it. I need someone new to focus on and have hopes for.
This is a stupid whiny post. I will delete it in a little while. But I needed to get it out.
Re: "stating the obvious" post wizer_now: [quote author=icwtsmnl link=topic=41084.msg459232#msg459232 date=1171036868"> i'm telling myself a hundred times not to expect a single thing on that awful date next Wed, the 14th. I know he'll do nothing, and why should he? And its not like he even did anything for you last Vday when you WERE together.
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Well, given that you got diddly when you WERE together, you definitely aren't going to get something now.
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I guess its the stupid side of me.
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I hate it when you say that. You are an extremely intelligent, perceptive, and attractive woman. I said it before, and having met you in person, I say this with confidence. Stop putting yourself down. Just stop it. You're really starting to piss me off.
[quote author=icwtsmnl link=topic=41084.msg459232#msg459232 date=1171036868">
I wonder if he thinks of me at all when all these annoying Vday commercials come on the tv?
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Of course he thinks of you. Otherwise he wouldn't be sticking his head inside your office to speak to you about things that are unrelated to work.
[quote author=icwtsmnl link=topic=41084.msg459232#msg459232 date=1171036868">
This is a stupid whiny post. I will delete it in a little while. But I needed to get it out.
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It's a good post. It's also a lot less angry and emotional than your posts from months ago. It's a good thing.
Re: "stating the obvious" post icwtsmnl: when I say "stupid", I don't really mean that I'm unintelligent or unworthy. It's really more a sign of my frustration with myself that I still have some feelings and tiny hopes for this jerk that my logic and brain says I need to stay away from. The internal conflict is really what I'm referring to. Thank you for your nice words though (the part before "you're really starting to piss me off. hahaha)
Re: "stating the obvious" post wizer_now: [quote author=icwtsmnl link=topic=41084.msg459257#msg459257 date=1171038343"> when I say "stupid", I don't really mean that I'm unintelligent or unworthy.
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Thanks for clearing that up. Now I can go back to work with a smile on my face.
Re: "stating the obvious" post StrongerToday: [quote"> I shouldn't care, I shouldn't bother, I shoudn't think about it. [/quote">
Aaahhhh shoulds!!! Run awaaaay!!! :D
Seriously though, why shouldn't you? It sounds perfectly normal to me, we all do it. Just don't let it get the better of you.
[quote"> I need someone new to focus on and have hopes for.[/quote">
Don't YOU deserve to be focused on and have hopes for? Maybe instead of some internet guy you should make you your priority.
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