Re: I'm done... pisces22: I know sometimes I feel like I don't deserve to focus soley on myself but when I do - other things in life fall into place. I am not dating (way too soon for me) but the time I have spent caring for myself will probably pay off in a more confident woman ready for love if it ever comes. I can understand why you are so frustrated, I would be too.Take good care of yourself.
I'm done... brielle123: Done. Done. Done.
I quit this dating $hit.
The guys I meet only want me for sex. I'm so incredibly sick of feeling hurt and confused. I have had enough of feeling rejected for a lifetime. Rejected by those before my stbxh, by my stbxh, and those after my stbxh.
I don't think love or being treated right by a member of the opposite sex is meant for me, just not in the cards for me.
I've been defeated, I feel bitter....and I hate this.
Re: I'm done... JadedButtafly: right now it feels this way....but someday, when you are really ready, you'll get your MoJo back and there will be a real MR. Right in the cards for you. You don't want to end up old and bitter and alone like my older sister do you lol she drives me nuts, its almost like shes got PMS 24/7 365 lol
Re: I'm done... StrongerToday: Why not? Quit dating to work on yourself. Learn to be happy and have fun with yourself again. Our lives aren't scripted on a timetable saying that you must keep dating so that you can marry again before the timer runs out!! :D As long as you're being happy and a good person eventually someone will sweep you back off your feet! Just make sure you're not so easy to sweep that any old schmuck can do it to help weed out the losers!
Re: I'm done... wizer_now: How about this?
When you get back to dating, dress very unattractively, go easy on the makeup...you get my point. That way you can be more certain that if they are interested, it's more for the "inner" you. Then, down the line, you can transform from the ugly duckling to the swan.
I'm actually being mostly serious here.
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