Re: I'm done... chaos40: wizer is right on point with that one... As a man I agree 100% with his thoughts on that!
people will treat you the way you demand to be treated and this shows by the way you carry yourself, dress and so....
not saying your doing anything wrong now ..but just a thought
Re: I'm done... smokin: [quote author=Fleur link=topic=41091.msg460021#msg460021 date=1171144052">
Initial attraction is very sexually motivated. You don't spot someone from across the room and think to yourself "I'll bet he's really handy around the house." [/quote">
i am very handy thank you. i only caught the house on fire 3 times, putting a water faucet in......
and its true. initial attraction is sexually oriented. if it werent for how a person looks(other than internet dating-with no picture) no one would get anywheres..... and like wiz man said, dont do yourself all up at first. let them deserve to be done up for......goose luck!
Re: I'm done... Batman: It may be a good idea to stop dating. I think people should date less. Our stupid culture pushes it on us that if we're single we're somehow less. What a crock.
Work on yourself.
Try to focus on the positive things about your love life. Like if guys are after you for sex, you must be pretty attractive. That's something to be grateful for. :)
Good luck.
Re: I'm done... brielle123: Thanks guys.
I really appreciate the input. The thing is though, that I have been focusing on me. I really have, I've been doing all that I need to be doing to get over my stupid divorce...or I guess the failure of my marriage....and just when I start to feel ok, something knocks me down again. I guess that feeling is not uncommon, but I am so sick of getting back up to try again, just to fall again. Oh well, guess that's life.
The last few days have been kinda hard on me, this situation plus a few more thrown in the mix. I sometimes wonder if God is playing a joke on me or something, cause I really just don't understand why people have to get $hit on all the time. I guess you go through these bad times so that life seems important when you start to have good times again.
I'm just ready to get to those good times, I've seen enough of the bad. I think I will just lay low on the dating thing, it hurts a whole lot less that's for sure.
